Scrapbooking Your Adoption

Unless someone has experienced the entire adoption process firsthand, no one can truly appreciate what is involved in this long haul.  Some couples know right from the start that they will adopt.  Others however don’t begin the application process until after years of disappointment.  Either way, the end result – a beautiful child – makes the journey all worthwhile.

The gift of a loving family is an immeasurable reward to treasure; but can you think of a more precious material gift to give you child than the entire “birth process” documented in the form of a scrapbook?  Once he/she is old enough to appreciate it, this scrap book will be examined time and time again.  Start with a heart-felt letter of how much you deeply desired to grow your family; write about the anticipation and the prayers as you waited, and waited some more.

Detail accounts of the application process, the background check, and the home visit.  Mark your shopping trips for bedroom furniture and a new wardrobe with photos of the occasions. If it’s an international adoption, do a section in your scrapbook on the country of origin.  You may want to celebrate the heritage of your child so add thorough detail about the birth country.

An adoption scrapbook is similar to a baby brag book, only it reflects more on the journey, not the end result.  It is much like a pregnancy scrapbook.  You want to include milestones, victories and disappointments.  Any parent of adult children knows the timeline from diapers to graduation goes far too quickly.  And while you are convinced you’ll remember every detail about the adoption process, the truth is you simply can’t remember it all.

The homecoming will be the most memorable event in the entire adoption process.  The day you’ve been waiting for – in many cases, waiting for years, will finally come to fruition.  It will be a banner celebration – marked by friends and family, balloons and signage and most of all – lots of joy.  Be sure to capture this joyous occasion with countless photos. Not that I needed to tell any proud parent to remember to take photos!

The welcome home celebration will be the final chapter to your Adoption Scrapbook. What may have started out as anticipation filled frustration will be completed with pure bliss.  Memorialize this event!